Anupama Written Episode Update Today 6th November 2023 : Anupama politely warns Malti Devi
Malti Devi asks if you have anything else to add. Yes, regarding sweety, Anupama responds, adding that it is hard to comprehend her because of her age and behaviour, but it is simple to provoke her. She claims you told her you loved Dimpy more than she did, and she calls you out for what you did. She adds that while I may have to focus more on one and less on the other, my beti and bahu remain the same for me and that their love will always be the same. She argues that when Dimpy becomes a mother, she would need to manage her profession and her child concurrently. Is Malti Devi making fun of me for not being able to manage both my profession and my kid at the same time? You are aware that I didn’t mean that, Anupama replies, so why are you looking for an explanation? She tells me to stop using the leaf under my feet as a reason to argue with me, and just let it be a leaf. She claims that everyone is aware that she doesn’t tease and that she tells people directly what’s on her mind. She begs her to consider Pakhi’s feelings when she expressed her lack of affection for her. Like she is saying, she wants her to consider the home hers. She advises that the elders resolve any misunderstandings and not bring them up. Malti Devi says you ought to have asked me whether I had told her this before blaming me. Anupama claims to be well-versed in Pakhi. Malti Devi claims that since Dimpy is here, Pakhi would have these kinds of views and that you didn’t consult me before bringing her to my home. This is Anuj and my home, Anupama says, and we will make a decision. She claims that I asked Anuj before bringing her here, and because Anuj completed her kanyadaan, this is her mayka, which serves as the girl’s safe haven.
You will comprehend this as a woman. Malti Devi queries how Dimpy’s mayka is this—that is, how your parents are still living and your mayka is the Shah residence. Anupama claims that while Anuj had biological parents, Mrs. Additionally, Mr. Kapadia states that sometimes, emotional ties outweigh kinship ties. These were his parents. She requests that instead of becoming a wall between herself and her kids, she act as a dadi’s connection. Malti Devi claims, “I told Pakhi nothing.” Anupama requests that she not tell Choti anything further, saying things like “I don’t have time, so don’t come to me,” and “Tell Dadi if you need anything, don’t tell Mummy.” She begs her to keep her distance from her children, saying, “My children tell me everything.” She replies, “I had forgiven you before, but not now.” She claims that the last time we played this game, I forgot all of my boundaries since it included her kids. She begs her to remember to honour her saas. Malti Devi says I have to take care of my kid since you don’t have time for your home and you worry about the Shah house folks. Anupama claims you love them more than the residents of this home, just as you love Dimpy more than Pakhi, that family more than this family, and your former spouse more than your current spouse. Astonished is Anupama. At that moment, Malti Devi notices Anuj and begins to apologise to Anupama. Anuj queries what transpired. Malti Devi claims that she did anything without getting her consent and that she would never do it again. Anupama is asked by Anuj not to worry. Anupama says she would not let anybody to get in the way of her relationship with her kids and adds, “I thought you are changed, but it’s my misunderstanding.”
Romil is eating lunch with Anuj and Ankush. Romil is asked by Anuj whether he like music. He wonders if he learned and remarks that he plays a good guitar. Romil claims that he continued what he had learned online. Is there anything special, Anuj queries. Ankush says he was a piano player once. Sure, Anuj replies, I see the link now. Do you want to chat to me about something? Romil asks.
Anupama wonders whether they’ll speak with Romil. Malti Devi questions their decision to go for a chat. Does Romil like any girls, Anuj asks. Romil confesses to like a girl. Anuj claims that even though he can’t play the guitar, he used to fancy Anu aunty, a girl at college, but he was unable to tell. Romil tells me that things go so quickly these days, and we go on a date, we kiss, and…Then he apologises. Ankush says it’s OK. We had gone through this stage, according to Anuj. He claims he can speak to our elders, although at that time we were unable to do so.
When Malti Devi learns about the situation, she is appalled and declares that Romil will be punished rather than made to understand. Anupama claims that because the parent-child relationship is now bidirectional and that the kids are curious to learn new things, we will teach them the difference between right and wrong. She also notes that if the kids surf the internet, they may discover false information. Who will think more clearly than the parents, she asks? How can you discuss this with Anuj and Ankush, asks Malti Devi? I had to, Anupama says, and I don’t want another adolescent kid to make the same mistake. Parents, she argues, may either make children understand or impose the limitations. Malti Devi declares that they should not get phones. Anupama claims that a few days ago, classes and school were conducted online. She also claimed that she teaches dance online. The internet is not bad, she continues, but we need to teach our children this. Malti Devi claims you’re mistaken. You are incorrect in my opinion, Anupama says, adding that either parents or children need to make a change.
Anuj inquires as to with whom you will speak if you have any problems. Romil says they look up solutions online. As for s*x education, Ankush claims that everything on the internet is incorrect. Romil becomes uneasy. Anuj begs him not to act awkwardly and clarifies that all he is saying is that incorrect knowledge is worse than incomplete information. If there is anything, Romil is asked to speak with them by Ankush. Thanking them, Romil remarks that it was excellent, although odd. We are not that elderly, according to Ankush. He argues we ought to have discussed it earlier. According to Anuj, there is a 90% likelihood that your parents will not agree with the choice you choose. Ankush claims that if one person confides in the other about their issue, the other person would be able to comprehend them. Anuj states that even if there is a generational divide, we will make a commitment to speak with one another whenever necessary since communication is crucial. #baat karo, Romil says.
Summary: Baa requests that Kinjal and Toshu stay home. Kinjal commands us to go. Baa sobs and declares that they are now living for Anupama. On behalf of her family, Anupama prays. The aarti platter is brought by Malti Devi. Anupama informs her that there is always one aarti platter.
Update: MA is credited.
